Teenagers

Mama's girl wonders why you love your teenager one minute and are ready to hang them out to dry the next minute. She also wonders why they love you one minute then are mad at you the next minute! Case in point..... Tonite Darling Son (DS) was suppose to be home from a friends house at precisely nine o clock. Mimi calls him at 9:05 at friends house and he says..oh, is it nine already...to which I reply NO it is now 9:05 get your A## home rather loudly. So DS shows up from friends house at 9:10 with another friend that needs a place to stay for the night. Mama's girl goes back over why I want him to learn to be on time for like the 11millioneth time and can feel her voice rising while she is trying very hard to keep it at a normal tone. DS appologizes and we kiss and makeup as only a Mom and Son can do. In the next minute DS friend calls his Mom to let him know he is staying at DS home and that is cool. Then DS friend calls his Dad...a well known alkie and spends the next 10 minutes trying to talk to his Dad while his Dad is hammered. It is all very sad. Mama's girl gives DS and Ds friend kind words of loving your parent no matter what. Next we go into the ..it's not your fault that Dad drinks every nite, you did nothing wrong etc etc etc etc. It is all very exhausting and yet in the midst of all this tormoil and emotions I feel I am at my very best. I do what I do best and that is love on people, kiss their boo boos and hurts away. My dear friend Lisa A. told me last week that I take care of alot of people and she is right. I do what I can with what I have right where I am because this is what God has planned for me to do. Love makes the world go round and right here this very night I showed a angry young man love, the kind of love and understanding that only comes from the father up above. I am his vessel and he flows thru me to touch others. Thank you dear God for teenagers.